Saturday, December 27, 2008

Virginity...


Tonight, I went out for a drink with some girls that I have not hung out with in a while. They also teach English here in Korea. They do not know the Lord, and while we were at the pub, they started making lists about guys that are "doable" in Daegu. Then, then they asked me for my list, and they both know that I have a relationship with God, but that tells me they really don't understand what it means. I told them after they insisted on me having a list, that I have never had sex before, and will not having sex with anyone in Korea unless I get married here (slim chance of that). I said, I am saving myself for my husband. They said nothing, they did not mock me, they did not say good for you, they just sat there for a second, and went back to their own lists. It did not hinder them from being any less open with me, but then again, they were both drunk. They did repeatedly say after that that I was probably wishing I wasn't there with them, and I would say no I am glad to be here with you. I figured this day would come eventually, and I didn't know how they would respond, but God gave me a peace right before I told them. I knew in my heart that I had to tell them, that God wanted me to. Be praying for them that God would open their hearts.

2 comments:

Molly Kate said...

I'm SO PROUD of you!!! I'm mailing you something soon :)

reeders said...

Jules! I am so proud of you as well! I have Truly enjoyed spending my relaxing time just reading these posts! I will try and stay more updated now!...I know that the LORD is going to continues to teach, grow and stretch you, but I am looking forward to reading all about it! it encourages me soo much that the LORD is working in the life of one of my favorite sisters! I love you sooo much! Continue to be bold and strong! love you!!!